With the sh*tstorm that was just released in the form of the 36 million names from the hacked Ashley Madison website, it got me thinking a lot about cheating. It is estimated that 30-60% (some research shows 70%!) of spouses will cheat on their wife/husband. That number is insane! And though, even after having it… Read More
Dear Anna Duggar, You don’t know me, nor do I know you. Unfortunately, I only know you because your name has been smattered around the Internet this week, again, thanks to your husband and his “sins.” And though, I am not in your situation, I have no influence on you or your relationship to your… Read More
Even more joyful than the joys of single parenting are the joys of co-parenting with your ex. (If you cannot sense the sarcasm, let me assure you that it’s there). You will forever be bonded to the person you once shared a life with, a family with, and forever a child (or children) with. No matter… Read More
After my ‘Open Letter to My “Fellow” Christians’ post (which I admit, I was a bit angry when I wrote it), I received so many messages from people all over the world who sadly had similar stories. Time and time again, stories of people seeking solace in a place that was supposed to be a… Read More
The Backstory I got an email this week from HER asking me for my forgiveness. She, the one I referred to as “homewrecker,” the woman that played a part in breaking up my family unit as I knew it. A small, immature part of me wanted to respond immediately with, “Well, isn’t Karma a bitch?”… Read More
What you’ve landed on is a work in progress. Much like my life has been the last 4 years since my divorce. Please be patient. This has been my place of business, a refuge, a soapbox and a creative dumping ground for the last 7+ years. It began as a central hub for my parents… Read More
I’ve really been craving writing for myself lately, but the problem is between writing as my full-time job, writing some fitness related articles for fitted. and life, I can’t find the time to post regularly or properly on this thing. Plus it needs a complete overhaul. So, in the meantime, I have decided to start “mini-blogging” on… Read More
So, if you’ve stumbled upon this page, you’re either: 1) Wondering where that German band who owned this page has gone. The answer: I have no clue. I’m just here for the party. 2) Wondering if this is THE Hanssie – of www.hanssietrainor.com. The answer: yes it is. 3) Then you’re probably wondering, why I… Read More
Let me reassure you that I am alive and well. I’d like to say I’ve come further in my journey to finding my purpose, but honestly I haven’t been looking. I’ve been busy with the pups, the Kidlet and becoming a weird half-assed Asian version of Martha Stewart.
I have finally found THE ONE.