Some guys just don’t know what to do with a girl that has standards.

A few months ago, I got a message from a guy who seemed nice enough. We chatted for a bit and exchanged numbers. We texted a bit. We talked on the phone a bit. We decided to meet for drinks. He called the next night, and we chatted, and then he proposed that we should meet up at his place first and “explore our animalistic attraction.” Ew.

Needless to say, I was disgusted and canceled immediately. He called me, and I basically ended up in a major shouting match with him. I told him I do not tolerate disrespect and what kind of girl did he think I was?!

In the last few months, he will randomly text me with, “Changed ur mind yet?” (First of all, it’s YOUR and second of all, HELL NO). The other night, he texted me again, and since I was feeling feisty, I wrote back, “You figure out how to respect women yet?” To which he responded, “U got issues.”

If having self-worth, self-respect and a standard of how I expect to be treated equals having “issues,” then I’m glad I have issues. And just a little part of me wants to meet him and punch him in the face.